Congratulations! You have decided to make a major life change. But did you realize every major life decision will be filled with doubt, confusion, and stress? Depending on what stage in life you are in, you may have an idea of what to expect. However, since we are all human, no matter how many times you can go through something, major life changes will take an emotional toll on us all. Here are three ways to at least manage some of the emotional turmoil during a real estate transaction.
1) Know what to expect.
One thing my teammate and I require is a consult before moving forward on any real estate journey. Whether you want to buy a home or sell a home, we insist taking the time to sit down and talk about the real estate market, how it will affect you, and what your expectations and goals are. Having a clear understanding on what you want, what you can expect, and how we can help will relieve a good amount of stress.
2) You are not a passive participant in this process.
Alliteration aside, this is a great mantra to repeat to yourself. If you feel stalled in the process, try something different. Buyers, you can search a different area or price range. You don’t have to go higher, you can look lower and consider how you can make renovations. Sellers, you can adjust the price or add incentives. Pricing and staging can have the most effect on how people react to your property. If the property is priced fair for the market and it shows beautifully, get creative! If you are hearing an issue is a lack of parking, offer to pay to rent a parking spot nearby for a year. But if you are not discussing your frustrations with your Realtor or your willingness to be creative, you may continue to feel dis-hearted and discouraged.
3) Be confident in your decision.
There will never be 100% certainty in any decision you make; this is a fact of life we all have to accept. But there is always the best decision to make to help you achieve your goals. No one buys a house to buy a house, a deeper reason is always present. Whether you want to invest in real estate and build wealth, have a home to raise a family near good schools, or have a condo in the city to enjoy the lifestyle, a deeper goal is involved in the purchase. The same is true with selling a home. Once you are clear on the reason you are doing something, the decision becomes a more confident one.
None of these tips are achievable without clear and continuous communication between you and your Realtor and especially you and your partner. A major life change is difficult to go through alone, being open and honest about your wants and needs will only make the process less stressful and more rewarding.